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Thursday, October 31, 2013
6 Stages of Facebook Envy by Dave Ramsey
6 Stages of Facebook Envy
Facebook envy.
There aren’t any forms of positive envy, but Facebook envy might be the worst.
What is it? As we explained in our article earlier this year , Facebook envy happens when you see a “friend” post about a vacation, a restaurant or a new car—anything that you can’t have—and you immediately feel inadequate because you don’t have those things.
Maybe you’re trying to get out of debt, or maybe you’ve recently lost a job and had to cut way back on spending. You’re in a tight spot.
Meanwhile, most of your friends are walking the credit card wire. They might fall any day now, but they’re going to look good on the way down! They love to show off every part of their extravagant, seemingly carefree lifestyle.
So how do you know if you suffer from Facebook envy? Let’s walk through all the stages using an example.
Let’s say your friends Mike and Sally recently bought a brand-new, two-story, four-bedroom house just outside the city. It’s the perfect house—the house you’ve always wanted.
Three hours after closing on their house, Sally posts this Facebook status:
“We are so blessed! Mike and I just bought our dream house! We can’t wait to start our family, grow old together, and live the life we’ve always dreamed of in this perfect home! We are so blessed! I love this house, and I love you, Mike! We are so blessed!”
Of course, the status update isn’t enough. Sally also posts a photo, and, no surprise, the house is beautiful.
For you, the process of Facebook envy now begins.
You might not get Facebook envy over a house. For you, it could be your friend’s food pictures, their vacations, all their group photos or even their always-smiling faces.
So how do you curb Facebook envy?
Simply realize that no amount of stuff will bring you happiness. Understand that, if your Facebook friends are like most Americans, a lot of their glamorous, showy lifestyle is thanks to debt.
You’ve chosen to avoid debt, right? So, one day, you can have the house and the vacation—and, most importantly, the legacy for your family—without mortgaging your future.
So if you have an out-of-control case of Facebook envy, maybe it’s time to take a break from social media. Let your “friends” all show off the stupid decisions they make with money, while you stay above it all. You’ll be much better off that way.
Have you ever had a case of Facebook envy?
Many of us buy things because we want to be like the Joneses. Well I will like to thank Dave Ramsey for this article. You may have read it or you may not but I felt you needed to read this and understand that you are you and they are them.
Here is a tool to help you get out of debt faster.
There aren’t any forms of positive envy, but Facebook envy might be the worst.
What is it? As we explained in our article earlier this year , Facebook envy happens when you see a “friend” post about a vacation, a restaurant or a new car—anything that you can’t have—and you immediately feel inadequate because you don’t have those things.
Maybe you’re trying to get out of debt, or maybe you’ve recently lost a job and had to cut way back on spending. You’re in a tight spot.
Meanwhile, most of your friends are walking the credit card wire. They might fall any day now, but they’re going to look good on the way down! They love to show off every part of their extravagant, seemingly carefree lifestyle.
So how do you know if you suffer from Facebook envy? Let’s walk through all the stages using an example.
Let’s say your friends Mike and Sally recently bought a brand-new, two-story, four-bedroom house just outside the city. It’s the perfect house—the house you’ve always wanted.
Three hours after closing on their house, Sally posts this Facebook status:
“We are so blessed! Mike and I just bought our dream house! We can’t wait to start our family, grow old together, and live the life we’ve always dreamed of in this perfect home! We are so blessed! I love this house, and I love you, Mike! We are so blessed!”
Of course, the status update isn’t enough. Sally also posts a photo, and, no surprise, the house is beautiful.
For you, the process of Facebook envy now begins.
1) You see the status update. Wow, that’s a beautiful house, you think. I’ve always wanted a house like that, you think. Mike and Sally, they’re such a cute couple. They seem to have everything.
2. You compare. This is where Facebook envy really starts. You compare your little studio apartment to their 3,000-square-foot, four-bedroom home. While looking at the photos, you realize your bedroom would likely fit inside their master bedroom closet.
3. You feel inadequate. Look at their house, and here you are living in this tiny apartment. You begin to feel sad and depressed because you thought you and your wife would have your own place by now. But some bad financial decisions have set you back and delayed your first home purchase. And there are Mike and Sally, living the life and rubbing it in on Facebook.
4. You consider making a change. You’re now inspired, but not in a good way. Before, you wanted to get out of debt, and you were willing to do whatever it took to reach that goal. Now you’re considering abandoning that plan. You’re inspired to keep up with the Joneses—or, in this case, Mike and Sally. You hop on a real estate website and start looking at comps. Right now, you could probably only make a 5% down payment—nowhere near your 20% goal—but you’ve got to have a new house because you want to make your own Facebook post!
5. You start taking active steps to make that change. You call a real estate agent. You visit a couple of open houses. You meet with a mortgage lender and look at some “creative” (in other words, terrible) loan options that will keep you in debt for 30 years. You are in full-on Facebook envy mode now. You’re considering changing all your plans, and your entire future, over a case of Facebook envy.
6. You (hopefully) realize you’re about to make a bad decision. Finally, you hear a voice, maybe Dave Ramsey’s, say, “What are you doing?” You snap out of it. You realize this has all been one terrible case of Facebook envy, and you back off your crazy change of plans. Or you move forward and make a terrible decision that will cause major regret a year from now.
Now, this is an extreme example to make a point.You might not get Facebook envy over a house. For you, it could be your friend’s food pictures, their vacations, all their group photos or even their always-smiling faces.
So how do you curb Facebook envy?
Simply realize that no amount of stuff will bring you happiness. Understand that, if your Facebook friends are like most Americans, a lot of their glamorous, showy lifestyle is thanks to debt.
You’ve chosen to avoid debt, right? So, one day, you can have the house and the vacation—and, most importantly, the legacy for your family—without mortgaging your future.
So if you have an out-of-control case of Facebook envy, maybe it’s time to take a break from social media. Let your “friends” all show off the stupid decisions they make with money, while you stay above it all. You’ll be much better off that way.
Have you ever had a case of Facebook envy?
Many of us buy things because we want to be like the Joneses. Well I will like to thank Dave Ramsey for this article. You may have read it or you may not but I felt you needed to read this and understand that you are you and they are them.
Here is a tool to help you get out of debt faster.
Thursday, October 24, 2013
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Sunday, October 13, 2013
10 Causes of Debt/Reason Number 2
#2 Divorce
It is not a
glorious thing when a couple gets a divorce.
If there are children involved it can be a pain to them just the
same. There are many things that go into
a divorce financially.
When you get
divorced there are things that can put you under very fast. Whoever gets the house has to worry about the
mortgage, repairs, bills, and property tax just to name a few. Whichever partner is not rewarded the
children has to worry about survival while paying child support. It also causes them money to spend time with
their children as the custodial parent will see them more and spend more time
with them doing things that will not cost as much.
One major
thing is that you both will have to split all the debt that you have
accumulated over the years. Credit
cards, car notes, and any loans you may have taken out. Factors that weigh heavily on the
pockets.
One way to
avoid this to make it easier on the both of you is to have a plan that you both
can agree on. This plan should include
each person’s financial situation. Face
it one most likely makes more than the other.
Just because you are divorcing does not mean you have to neglect your
former spouse’s needs financially. Think
of the hate that would cause between the two of you and the affects it would
have on the children. If both of you
are willing to make sacrifices and have a clean break from all financial ties
(with no debt) together this is very important for you to do.
Instead of
keeping the house you both may decide to sell it. This is the most common thing done in
divorces. This way the mortgage is not
an issue. If you can’t afford to keep
the car then you will need to sell it and buy a cheaper car. Your income is not the same as it was when
you were married so you can’t continue to live on the budget you may have come
accustomed too.
Set a budget
for yourself and remember to live within your means and not try to be glorious
or go on a spending spree because you are single and you need that new outfit
to go out on the town with your friends.
Once you realize how tough things are going to be on a single income the
better off you will be. Build your
savings and your emergency fund up and start to do the Baby Steps listed in the
“Total Money Makeover” by Dave Ramsey.
Dave Ramsey
Giveaway
Many of
these lessons are taught by Dave Ramsey in his best-selling book “The Total
Money Makeover”. These lessons in this
book will teach you how to be prepared.
Dave
Ramsey’s lesson: “Design a sure-fire plan for paying off all debt---meaning
cars, houses, everything. Recognize the
10 most dangerous money myths (these will kill you). Secure a big, fat nest egg for emergencies
and retirement!” These are just some of
the things you will learn in this book.
It has changed the lives of millions including myself.
About the
Author:
Hello. My name is Andre Hardy and I am part of a
“Home Business” that is an affiliate of Dave Ramsey and we preach being debt
free as well as provide you with an engine to make extra money without leaving
your primary job. We are offering this
book for free (The Total Money Makeover) to anyone that joins our team and
start their journey to being debt free.
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Wednesday, October 9, 2013
10 Causes of Debt
10 Causes of Debt
Cause #1: Reduced Income But Same Expenses
How do we
get into debt? There are 10 Causes of
Debt in which I will discuss throughout this Debt campaign. We as people tend to do so many things to get
us into debt and the majority of the things we do, we don’t even realize that
we are doing them. Some things we have
control over and some things we don’t.
The lesson to be learned is to control things we can and to be prepared
for the things we have no control over. Over
the next ten newsletters I will discuss them one by one so you can get a good
idea on how to combat debt in your lives and your family’s lives.
First Cause of Debt: Reduce Income
but Same Expenses
There are
many circumstances in life where we lose some or all of our income. May it be getting laid off from work, illness,
paycuts, or having to take a less paying job.
These are things you have no control over, but when these things happen
we have to adjust our lifestyle. We can
no longer drive the most expensive car or live in the most expensive
house. It is hard for people to let
these things go and it is totally understandable. We get accustomed to the good things when we
have worked so hard to get them. This is
the hardest thing to do when it comes to adjusting to a reduced income
lifestyle.
The first
thing that needs to be done is to take into account all the things that are
extras. What I mean by extras is those
things that you can live without and are not critical to living. Some of things may be to sell your car for a
less expensive one. If you can no longer
afford cable or the big cell phone bill (which many of us have) and find a
lower plan that will fit your budget.
Cut back recreational activities.
Now we all understand that we have to be able to enjoy life, but maybe
instead of every weekend maybe just once a month. Find less expensive things you can do at home
with your children or go to your local government’s websites and find out what
recreational activities they have for free.
Many cities post these on their websites so take full advantage of that.
Once you cut
back on many of the things you can live without and are not critical for your
survival, then it’s time to take a look at your finances again. Hopefully by then you have adjusted enough
and your mortgage or your rent is not over shadowing you like the Creature
Within. All things are possible as long
as you have a plan.
Dave Ramsey Giveaway
Many of
these lessons are taught by Dave Ramsey in his best selling book “The Total
Money Makeover”. These lessons in this
book will teach you how to be prepared.
Dave Ramsey’s
lesson: “Design a sure-fire plan for paying off all debt---meaning cars,
houses, everything. Recognize the 10
most dangerous money myths (these will kill you). Secure a big, fat nest egg for emergencies
and retirement!” These are just some of
the things you will learn in this book.
It has changed the lives of millions including myself.
Hello. My name is Andre Hardy and I am part of
a “Home Business” that is an affiliate of Dave Ramsey and we preach being debt
free as well as provide you with an engine to make extra money without leaving your primary job. We are offering this book for free (The Total Money Makeover)
to anyone that joins our team and start their journey to being debt free. Click the link below and see what we have to
offer.
Monday, October 7, 2013
Once You "Get It" You Will Focus More On The Products
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